It seems everywhere you turn brings a reminder that Valentine’s Day is here. Valentine’s Day is a day meant to celebrate love and reflect on your relationship with your partner. However, if you find yourself single this year, don’t panic!
Just because you don’t have a partner to share Valentine’s Day with this year doesn’t mean you should boycott the holiday altogether. Take this Valentine’s Day as a day to work on loving yourself and envisioning what you want for the future. “Whether this is the first time you’re alone on Valentine’s Day or the fifth year in a row, it’s important to remember that this is just part of the journey of finding love,” reassures Christian matchmaker Renee Richel. “Your match is out there, but you have to be willing to put in the work to receive the rewards.”
There Are Still Things To Learn
Many people don’t invest enough in really learning the skills it takes for a relationship to work and flourish before they start dating. They may think that they’ll learn what to do through experience while in the relationship, but by then, it’s too late. When it comes down to it, you want to master the skills of a relationship before you meet your future partner; that way, you’ll be able to put the best version of yourself forward as a great mate.
Whether you’re a child of divorce and not sure what a healthy relationship really entails, don’t know how to effectively communicate your thoughts and feelings with others, or just feel out of touch with how a relationship works in today’s day and age, don’t lose hope. There are many seminars and classes that teach relationship skills. 1 True Match offers a program called “LOVE Starts with YOU!” offering the latest relationship tips to apply in your life today and for the future to find and hold onto a lasting love.
Don’t Settle
Although it may seem like you’re running out of time, you’re not! As people age, they think that they need to go ahead and settle because they’ll never find their match. However, that is not the case! “Finding someone who is your equal means they are working just as hard as you are to attain that happy life that you envision,” insists Richel. “If they don’t align with your vision, don’t compromise your future to fit theirs.” It’s important for you to have a clear and confident vision for yourself and your future. You should do the same when thinking about jumping into the dating pool; your wants, needs, and goals are all important aspects that need to be taken into consideration when deciding who you want to share your life with.
When you work with a matchmaker like 1 True Match, they can help you create a road map that provides clarity and direction with what to do, how to understand who you are and what you need, and determine what you’re really looking for in your future and a partner. Focus on making you your best self so you can attract the highest caliber of person you deserve!
Never Spend Another Valentine’s Day Alone
Place your trust in 1 True Match and let us help you become the best version of yourself! We help you deeply understand your wants, needs, values, and even your blind spots, so we can help you avoid them. We know a successful relationship starts with how you feel about yourself inside and out. We have a team of experts who are ready to make you sure you shine! Click here to schedule up a free consultation and learn more.