Christian matchmaking services FAQ

How Our Matchmaking Process Works

Christian Matchmaking Services FAQ

General Questions About Christian Matchmaking

Here, we answer the questions Christian singles ask most about our matchmaking process, the investment, and coaching. Whether you’re clarifying your relationship goals or ready to pursue a faith-centered long-term relationship, this guide is built for faith-driven singles like you.

Understanding Our Matchmaking Process

We believe your love story deserves more than casual swipes—it’s why we created 1 True Match. When you choose us, you’re choosing a matchmaking service designed to guide you toward a relationship that aligns with your faith, values, and life goals. We remain committed to your long-term happiness even after marriage. With over 400 married couples, a 95% success rate, and zero divorces, our work stands out in both care and results.

For many successful men and women in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond, searching for that special someone has become an endless and frustrating stream of awkward dates. This is not surprising as there are very few ways to meet men and women who are highly likely to be compatible with their core beliefs, goals and plans for the future. Why is this?

The answer is that most people must resort to using online dating sites which use a series of (often embellished) data points to try and match singles. This approach has a certain appeal over awkward dates arranged by friends and family since it is anonymous. We collaborate with other matchmakers and recruiters to find you the best and most compatible match for you.

At the heart of our faith-driven mission, 1 True Match follows a six-step process: from intake and discovery, to screening, presentation, meeting, and feedback. Each phase of our process is rooted in our commitment to deeply understanding your values, your story, and your unique needs, so we can offer matches that feel both authentic and spiritually aligned.

Enlisting the support, guidance and advice of a professional matchmaker can have a huge impact on the outcome and success of your future relationships. Matchmaking works in the same capacity as hiring a dedicated search firm to help companies find, qualify and vet key employees and executives. The search for anything valuable in life requires special care, attention and dedication to the finest of details.

The matchmaking process is one that involves a matchmaker and client in a consistent exchange of ideas, thoughts and feedback. It’s important to remember this is a process and a journey to get to the love of your life.

At our company, the journey begins with a 20 minute complimentary consultation phone call to discuss your personal goals, needs and to share information on how we will support you in creating the personal love life you desire. We then set realistic expectations to give our potential clients an accurate and honest look at what the process might involve based on desired criteria, location and relationship readiness. We are only able to accept the clients we feel we are able to serve and who are in alignment with our own values and goals as one of the most trusted matchmaking companies in the industry. It’s important to us to know you, your wants, needs, personal deal breakers, lifestyle, relationship history, dreams and desires.

Once you’re a client and we begin the process, we start interviewing and vetting potential men or women for you and only introduce to the most compatible, intelligent, and successful professional men or women. That said, our success truly lies in our ability to not only know the type of man or woman you seek, but to recognize the individual who’s looking for someone just like you.

We work exclusively for single, christian, eligible men and women and we limit the number of clients we are able to serve each year to ensure a high level of care and support for each client. Men and Women are invited to submit a confidential and free dating profile to our exclusive network and come to us through referral, advertising, our social media, events and our ‘Love Angel’ Scouts.

Every introduction is pre-screened by our team and when we have a compatible match to share with you, your professional matchmaker will reach out via phone or email for your thoughts and approval. After each and every date, you’ll be giving and receiving feedback, which is a valuable part of why we’ve been able to help couples find true love. Each introduction is a chance for all of us to learn more about you and the qualities that inspire chemistry, romance and ultimately lasting love. We go beyond the matchmaking process by supporting you with your entire personal journey. The more we know you and your lifestyle the better we can support you and find your ideal match.

Our Christian matchmaking services are a personalized investment, with packages beginning around $20,000 and ranging up to $75,000 depending on the scope of your search. Every package reflects the hands-on, confidential, and faith-centered nature of our work—including coaching, honest feedback, and dedicated support throughout the process. Because each search is tailored to your values, goals, and story, we’ll walk you through the option that best fits your needs during your free consultation.

Matchmaking success is making introductions between two people who are compatible. We are not here to waste your time or ours by introducing two people who are not a true match. It’s a success when you find that special someone on one of your dates during your time with us who you want to continue dating. You’re in great hands. Many of our clients who have come before you have experienced the luxury of dating some of the most eligible men and women to find love since 1 True Match was founded in 2010. 

Yes, we do. Individual coaching is part of what we offer. Some service levels feature hourly date-coaching, guided support, and relationship tips to strengthen your emotional and spiritual readiness. Our coaching is tailored to help clients gain clarity, confidence, and hope—because meeting your match is about more than just introductions; it’s about becoming the best version of yourself.

We also have a program called “LOVE Starts with YOU!” offering the latest relationship tips to apply in your life today and for the future to find and hold onto a lasting love. 1 True Match also has courses for engaged and married couples. For engaged and married couples we have a course called “Couch Talk”. For the marriage spark to be fresh and lasting, we have a course called “Keep the Marriage Fresh” for married couples.

Visit our “About Us” page or our “Events Page” for more details on our upcoming events and tours. Contact us for more information about our programs that we have.

You’ve reached the height of your career; you have many friends and attend social functions regularly, you are fit and energetic, but yet something is missing. However, “someone” is missing. Despite many futile attempts at finding and connecting with that special person many highly successful men and women have failed in this one area of their lives. Maybe it is time for some focused and professional help.

The truth is that a computer program cannot evaluate the special qualities that could potentially create that spark of excitement with the right person. To narrow the odds of finding the right person within the sea of people represented by embellished dating profiles, the services of a professional matchmaker can take the pain out of the process that can be lonely.

 After each date, our matchmakers are available to provide feedback and assess whether the date was successful in the eyes of both parties. We are unbiased, spend a lot of time assessing the result of the date, and helping each person to decide if they should continue. In most cases, it takes time to fully evaluate the potential of a relationship but there are certain relationships that hit it off immediately. Additionally, where it is evident that there is no point to continuing, we will be the first to suggest trying someone else.

We are more than just your matchmakers. We are also your dating expert and relationship coaches. Our advice and counsel may be the most valuable part of our process together. You’ll greatly benefit from the honest feedback, as well as the guidance given about each person you’ll be meeting.

When you engage with us, at that time, your qualified matchmaker will give you full guidance on your final choice, but here are some general guidelines to help you understand.

An In-Network search comprises all the candidates that are already known to us. The Full Search includes searching outside our databases and it allows us to be even more targeted in our approach to finding your 1 True Match.

For example, if you have specific requests pertaining to a geographic limitation, like your candidate has to live in your current state or a state nearby, then our existing pool of potential matches (In-Network) is significantly reduced. If this is something that you would want, then a Full Search would be more suited for you.

The Full Search typically produces more focused dates and an opportunity to ‘Freeze’ the account when a relationship extends into a more exclusive arrangement.    In-Network searches can be paused, meaning all searching activities from our team will cease, but the time clock does not stop. With a freeze, the time clock is stopped for up to 90 days and will restart when you request it to.

The Full Search has a higher success rate due to the length of time and greater scope of matches, however both types of search have provided a 1 True Match for our clients. It is possible for you to switch from an In-Network Search to a Full Search if you decide to at any time. It is advised that you have this discussion with your matchmaker to see if that’s the best choice for you to make.

Yes. While our headquarters is in Jacksonville, Florida, 1 True Match is a personalized, Christian-based international matchmaking service. We work with relationship-minded, successful professionals wherever they are, and our confidential, tailored process is designed to serve you no matter your location.

We’re proud that our Christian matchmaking services have helped create over 400 married couples, with a 95% success rate and zero divorces. Since 1 True Match was founded in 2010, our commitment hasn’t ended at the match—we remain dedicated to your long-term happiness well into marriage.

1 True Match is a Christian matchmaking firm based in Jacksonville, Florida, founded in 2010 by Renee Richel. It is built for singles who want a partner who shares their faith, values and life goals. In your interview, your matchmaker asks what matters most to you, including how you live out your faith, your church background, your family and cultural background, and what you want your future home to look like. Those answers shape who we search for, and you approve every introduction before it happens.

Yes. Single parents are welcome at 1 True Match. Your matchmaker takes time to understand your family, your schedule and what you are looking for in a partner, and that becomes part of your search. Every candidate is interviewed and background checked, and you see who we recommend and approve the introduction before you meet. After each date we collect feedback from both of you, so your search keeps getting closer to the right person for you and your children.

Yes. Many of the people we help are divorced or returning to dating after a long time away, and are ready for a Christ-centered fresh start. Your matchmaker and our coaching support help you think through what you want this time, and we only introduce you to vetted, marriage-minded singles who share your faith. The first step is a complimentary 20-minute consultation, which is private and carries no obligation.

Yes. We work with men and women in their 20s, 30s, 40s, 50s and beyond. Many clients in their 40s and 50s have busy careers and families and do not want to spend their evenings on dating apps. A matchmaker does the searching, screening and scheduling for you, so the time you do spend dating is with people who share your faith and want a lasting relationship.

Yes. Parents often contact 1 True Match on behalf of an adult son or daughter. The process starts with a private conversation with you, but your son or daughter needs to be on board and involved, because introductions only work when they want them. You agree up front how much you will be involved. Read more in why parents are hiring matchmakers for their adult children.

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